Posted by
Enderdog on Monday, May 18, 2009 11:47:54 AM
...one has to have some sense of what the truth actually is. Many
Liberals simply don't have this capacity. And those that rise high as
politicians are the most self-deluded of all. As a firefighter/EMT, I
see this all the time. People who are raised in environments where there
is no reward for telling...or even remembering... what actually
happened, have a different mechanism that occupies the same part of
their mind, that truth does in a well-raised person.
It's basically a matter of behavioral conditioning. At a very early age,
a kid learns quite effectively to observe whomever he or she is talking
to, for signs of displeasure at what they are saying. They know that
saying what the authority figure in front of them doesn't want to hear,
is likely to lead to pain.
Now this person may be their mother. Or it may be some other child in
the household, who sits higher in the food chain than them. Most of
these households are fatherless. The lack of a central arbitrating
authority contributes mightily to this pattern of dysfunction. But that
lack, means that the child does not have to think beyond the current
moment, to later consequences, for the most part.
They know that if they can manage to get out of trouble in the moment,
that the emotional force of whatever happened will wear off, and it will
be forgotten. So their focus is to supplicate.
They do this by starting to talk, and carefully observe the reaction of
the person they are talking to. If they get a good reaction, they stay
with that line. If they sense that what they are saying is not being
well-received, they quickly switch to another line, until they get
feedback that tells them they are on track again. They continue this
until they get a signal from the AF (authority figure) that they are
satisfied. Then, that *becomes* their story. And they are sticking to it!
I can't count the number of times I've heard those exact words from
people in the projects, or other households, where there are no good
male role models, to act as arbiters. It's a hierarchy thing. It keeps
kids from being beaten better than any other strategy in those
circumstances.
They aren't lying. They aren't capable of it, literally, since what
actually happened has no value to them, with regard to their immediate
desired outcome, which is to escape punishment.
I have to laugh at the current situation. President Obama got elected by
telling middle America what we wanted to hear. And he's very good at
that, and many people bought it. Those on the far left, supported him
vociferously, because they knew he didn't mean much of what he was
saying, but had to say it to "fool" the middle-of-the-roaders.
Now it turns out that he wasn't lying about many things, that they
thought he was. He is a narcissist, who craves power and attention. And
he will sincerely stick to his story, no matter how many times he has to
revise it, in light of public reaction to it. He's got *NEW* friends now!